Monday, September 3, 2012

Can I be proud of my 22 inches?


“Wow” exclaimed the nursed as she looked down. My little baby girl was 22 inches tall, well 21.5 inches actually but let’s round up, “isn’t she a tall one”!

She seemed pretty short to me, but I couldn’t help myself so I looked up just how tall 21.5 inches was. Turns out the cutie is between the 80th and 90th percentile! She’s winning already!

Now I know that the early childhood development experts all say that praise should be given for effort, and gloating over how smart your child is (or how tall she is or any other “fixed” state that she “is”) can be unhealthy. Actually, I think I’ve seen it described as “toxic” by one particularly grumpy researcher. But I just couldn’t help myself, I went straight over to little long luscious creature and blurted out, “[coo coo], aren’t you so tall, [coo coo], well done”!


Seriously, “well done”?? Of course it made no sense, and yet, I felt such a deep seated pride. I feel like I just joined that super annoying club of overly-proud over-sharer parents, but I’m not afraid to own it.

And I can’t wait to tell my daddy buddies!

P.S. height seems to be strongly correlated with frequency of feeds, especially overnight feeds...

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